
My rating: 5 of 5 stars
This book provides a framework that encourages readers to accept what they can’t control and to focus instead on their actions, growth, and well-being. It contains 20 chapters that cover the Let Them Theory (let them, and let me), exploring how it applies to you and those around you. Stop overthinking and trying to control things beyond your reach; instead, act on what you can influence.
This philosophy can be applied to improving nutrition and diet by shifting your mindset and behaviors around social pressures, progress, sustainable habits, and fostering a better relationship with food.
For instance, the poor dietary habits of family, friends, and colleagues should not influence your commitment to maintaining proper nutrition. Your mindset should be to let them eat whatever way; I’m choosing something different for my health. Don’t allow peer pressure or guilt to influence your actions. If others challenge your dietary choices or call you difficult, stay confident and set boundaries to protect your goals. Maybe some resist your change and say that life is too short not to eat dessert; let them. Don’t let your progress be limited by others’ stagnation. And while you may not be able to control every meal in family or group settings, that’s okay. Allow others to eat what they want, and you can make the best choices available to you. You don’t need full control to make better decisions; it is more important to focus on sustaining good, long-term habits. Prioritize habits that matter, such as meal prepping, eating anti-inflammatory foods, and practicing mindfulness. And lastly, let go of people-pleasing in social settings. You don’t have to say yes to food out of politeness or to fit in; your health goals are more important than temporary approval. This will build assertiveness and reduce emotional eating triggers.
This book is well-written in an approachable and relatable tone. You feel like she is talking to you as a friend. The author summarizes sections and reviews key concepts throughout to really drive the points home. Sharing her personal stories, struggles, and continued efforts to do better is inspiring.
The concepts may seem oversimplified or repetitive at times; the author shares many different scenarios and how the theory can be applied. Some readers may not appreciate that best-friend tone.
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